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Cyber-Bullying: Threatening Kids Everywhere :Sep 18, 2007Last night Tom’s daughter, Sue, came out of her room and said, “I got another one of those instant messages. It says, 'tomorrow you had better not show up at school or else'.” She has been getting messages frequently. The result of this is that she no longer likes to turn her computer on. Sue is 14 years old and in the 8th grade. She has been bullied at school for a number of years and she has had a difficult time getting the principal and teachers to end it. Sue has two disadvantages that make her a target. First, she has always had a weight problem , not extremely heavy but overweight. Second, her last name is hard to pronounce. This has led to numerous ways to say and spell her name. Others have been very creative and cruel. Tom is aware that she needs to lose weight , but what can he do about his last name... change it?
This is coming to a school near you if it hasn't already. The concerns involving cyber-bullying include:
2. It creates a barrier between the bully and the victim. This makes anyone who normally wouldn't be a bully now becomes a potential bully because there is no face-to-face contact. Smaller students have found a way to bully. 3. It is very difficult to catch the bully. When one is suspected or caught his or her defense is that it was someone else impersonating them or someone used my password. 4. Camera phones are making cyber-bullying more creative. They take a student's picture and then they manipulate the photo. Then it is posted on a Web site, emailed out or posted on YouTube. Imagine getting an email of a nude individual with your face attached to it, and you’re only a teenager. Many kids, including Sue, do not want to report this problem to their parents for fear of how their parents may react. Many believe their parents will take away their cell phone, computer, or Internet access. This is an obvious solution to stopping the messages. Sue feels harassed by the bully and then punished by her parents when her equipment is removed. This is a double punishment for her. Parents should strongly consider removing an Internet connection from a child’s bedroom. Internet connections need to be in a central location. |
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