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6 Tips to Make Him Melt :
Aug 25, 2007
Anyone who has ever spent the evening exchanging knowing glances or witty banter with a good-looking stranger knows that flirting is one of life’s simplest pleasures. It lifts the spirit , shaves years off of your soul and sends yummy little electric shocks all over your body. Not to mention, it is a hell of a lot of fun! Bombshells like Marilyn Monroe and Angelina Jolie became famous for their ability to turn men into silly string with the bat of an eyelash, but for the rest of us, flirting with the opposite sex can be tricky. If the only men you have been coming on to are Ben and Jerry, back away from the spoon and reach for your stilettos because we’ve got six ways to take your seduction skills from stale to sizzling . Melt Him! Show a Little Confidence In a world full of people trying to impress one another by looking or living like their favorite celeb, a woman who embraces herself shines like a full moon in a dark sky. When he gives you a compliment, don’t deflect it, but instead, stare him in the eyes, smile and say “thank you.” Don’t bash your body , dumb yourself down or say or do anything to apologize for who you are, where you are from, what you believe or what you do for a living. We are all a culmination of every choice, moment and adversity we have experienced until this very moment and every one of them make you the unique and interesting woman you are. Embrace that with pride! Instant confidence tip: When in doubt, ask yourself, “How might Angelina handle this?” Flirty Fact: Men see cattiness as insecurity -- which is a huge red flag for them in the beginning, and a turn off from beginning to end. Flash your security by complimenting the pretty women who surround you, instead of pointing out their flaws. Melt Him! Make Yourself Available While girls night out is a ton of fun, seeing you surrounded by a huge group of women offers you more protection than Trojan and Lifestyles combined. Most men find hitting on a woman incredibly intimidating (Have you seen the way some women respond to those poor fellas?), but to have to do it surrounded by an army of Jimmy Choo’s is enough to have any man shaking in his jeans. If you see a lad you’d like to get to know more, excuse yourself from your posse to get a drink, use the ladies room or pick a few songs on the juke box. He’ll appreciate the queue.
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