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Forgiveness: 10 Ways to Let Go and Love Again :
Aug 25, 2007
The Memory Have you ever experienced an event in your life that you can’t seem to forget? It agitates you and angers you when you recall and dwell on the memory. Perhaps someone did one or more of the following to you: stole from youmisled youcheated you in some wayabused youlied to youAnd you want to get back at them… period! You cannot seem to forget the event. The anger and hate is rising and rising within you. Ask yourself the following: Is it your mind that won’t let you forget the event? Do you really want to forget the event? Or do you enjoy your thoughts of anger, hate and revenge regarding the event?The Choice of Revenge or Forgiveness Fear, anger, hate and revenge are the most destructive forms of energy that a person can become embroiled in. These negative emotions can dominate your thinking and can lead you to commit negative acts. Revenge is a very dangerous act to commit. If you commit an unjustifiable negative act in your life, you in turn will become part of that negative cycle. What goes around comes around, no matter who you are in this world. We see this time and time again in the media. By giving in to your fear, anger and hate you ultimately will be no different than those who wronged you in the first place.Making the right decisions about nutrition can really improve the quality of your life. Get healthy, and get happy, with one of our 24 personalized diet plans. Click here for a free diet profile and find the best one for you. By allowing yourself to forgive the person and the event, you may find yourself in a more comfortable and content state of mind. By letting go of the need for revenge, which is fed from your hate and anger, you will naturally start focusing on the things in life that truly matter to you and which hopefully bring you a sense of fulfillment. When a person pursues the fulfillment of their own life, generally speaking, they will be content and comfortable with life -- no matter how physically hectic it can be! You have a choice of thoughts regarding revenge or forgiveness: negative or positivedestructive or non-destructiveirrational or logicalrevenge or forgivenessYou make this choice; no one else does it for you. There may be times in your life when you have to defend yourself, family or even your country; nonetheless, the decisions during the life path are yours. It can be positively radiant and fulfilling, or it can become depressingly negative and hateful. The choice is yours.
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