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How to Speak Your Mind Without Fear :Aug 17, 2007Have you ever regretted not expressing your needs, desires, thoughts or feelings to someone because of your own fear of rejection? Do you ever think to yourself, "Oh, if only I had spoken up?" If this sounds like you, you’re not alone! This is a common problem with folks with low self-esteem. And yes, even your manner of communicating has everything to do with your weight . This type of communication is considered passive. Passive communication is when you allow others to make decisions for you, leaving you with feelings of self-loathing and feeling somewhat like a door mat. Hence, you find yourself feeding those strong emotions with food to escape the discomfort . If what you want is to lose weight and feel great about yourself, we have your solution. Step 1. Fill out this FREE diet profile . Step 2. Start losing weight! It's easy. Do it today!Swallowing those feelings, rather then expressing them, can and does result in an array of unproductive behaviors like health problems, difficulty sleeping, problems in relationships and, most of all, an eating frenzy. When you let someone know your thoughts and feelings, you have a greater likelihood of being able to "work through" or "be done with" the feeling once and for all without stuffing it away. Hey, you actually might even get what you are requesting (and lose weight at the same time!) If the person you have feelings toward is no longer alive or accessible, it’s still not too late to express them. You may communicate your thoughts and feelings by writing a letter. To start nipping your passivity in the bud, you might want to follow a few simple steps. This is important because your feelings are worthy of being heard. This intimate exchange of emotions deserves respect. If the person you are disclosing your feelings to isn’t truly ready to hear you, you are likely to leave the situation feeling misunderstood or discounted once again. |
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