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Get Your Man Back on His Toes! :
Aug 10, 2007
Once upon a time, you met a boy who was attentive, romantic and called you non-stop. He bought you flowers, took you to dinner and -- gasp! -- even turned his cell phone off. He made you laugh, and finally asked you to commit to him and only him. Fast-forward a year… Mr. All About You is zoning away at the television set while you prance around in your new lacy unmentionables. What gives? When you feel good, you look good. So put a little more swing in your step by losing weight! eDiets makes it easy -- simply choose from one of our 24 personalized plans, and we'll lay out your whole diet for you! Click here for a free diet profile! Welcome to the "Reality Zone," where romance is a distant memory and the only way you can get your man’s attention is by holding the remote hostage. If you are stuck in a rut, it’s time to take action . We’ve got nine tips for getting your man back up on his toes.1. Stop Doing Things for Him. You think you are being nice by running his errands, cleaning the apartment and cooking his favorite meals, but the truth is that a favor is special because it doesn’t happen often. If you’re man can’t walk two blocks to pick up his dry cleaning, he’s taking you for granted and probably not noticing how much you are doing for him.
Why it Works: When was the last time you looked at a doormat and thought, “Wow, that’s a sexy ‘Welcome’ sign on your forehead? Show him you are not his executive assistant and you value your time and energy too much to exhaust yourself doing things he can do on his own.2. Stop Showering Him with Attention. Everyone likes to be complimented and flattered, but when it’s happening 24/7 it becomes routine, and routine is not special or romantic.
Why it Works: He may not notice it now, but take it away and he’s going to start wondering why you aren’t fawning over him, and better yet, where that attention has been directed! Make him earn it, woman! 3. Take Your Life Back. When you get into a relationship, it’s easy to fall deep into a cocoon, especially for women. The safety of the nest can be comforting, but pretty soon the oxygen runs out and one of you is going to feel suffocated and suffocation is so not hot.
Why it Works: He fell in love with the woman you were when you were not focusing on him 24/7. Reignite your passions, hang out with friends more and don’t talk about him the whole time. He’ll start remembering all of the wonderful qualities you possessed when he first met you that extend far beyond how much you love him.
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